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Diving Into The Deep End

Diving Into The Deep End

You know when you start dating a new person, and you start to think – maybe this will work.  Maybe this will click.  Maybe this is it?  That is suppose to be a good thing!  But so often I at least then start thinking “Crap! Now I have to get naked with a new person.” “Or, I don’t want to get ready in the morning with a new person.”  or “I don’t want someone figuring out that I _____ (have a crazy family, hate spiders, cry at all the sappy movies, etc.)”

So it’s a mixed bag.  Yes – we get to meet and know someone new. Have someone to cuddle up with, get dressed up for and do date nights with, and of course, have great sex with.  But at the same time we get to have a new person to learn how to communicate with, to learn how to navigate through life with, and yes, to be vulnerable – one more time- in hopes that this is it.  And that being vulnerable won’t end up in crumpled heart break a few months down the line.

But if we don’t take the chance – we don’t get the reward. Kind of like diving into a cold lake on a hot summer’s day.  That initial shock gives way to pure bliss.  But we have to be willing to dive in and experience a moment’s discomfort in order to experience both. And the older we get, the more relationships we have, the more tape we have on our heart, the harder that can be.

What do you think? Do you get nervous starting a new relationship?

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