My Devina

This weekend I went with some of my girlfriend to see Sex & The City 2.   I think one of the reasons the series and now the movies are such a hit, is that so many of us can relate to the women. Some of us to one character, but probably most of us to […]

It’s that time of year – when some playoff or other is occurring. OK isn’t that like always?  So if you are dating a guy, or married to a guy, who is all into his team and their status in the games, what to do?  Is it too much to ask that you get a […]

From the dating archives… Every so often I have a date where I am sitting there, trying to make conversation, or just simply so incompatible or a date so not present with me, that all I can think of is “I’m missing my favorite TV show for this!?????” Dang. Can you relate? Have you ever […]

OMG last night I was reading an article on Feng Shui and realized that in my Love & Relationship corner I had a very large stagnant plant. That sucker had not grown at all in two years. (I repotted it two years ago, into a nice roomy pot, and it just never recovered.) Feng Shui […]

I decided last weekend, after talking with a former lover (oddly enough) to try online dating. My dilemma was that given that most of my girlfriends are in relationships, I don’t have a lot of friends to go “prospecting” with. So my que of dating men has diminished a bit. …

When was the last time someone did something really romantic for you?  I was thinking about this as I stumbled across a mix tape I got from a secret admirer in college. But whomever it was – they went to a lot of trouble.  This was before computers and laser printers were common. But this […]

So I’ve been doing the whole eHarmony thing. And one of the funny things is – it keeps throwing doctors and lawyers at me. Not sure why this is, unless it’s just the two professions I’ve never really dated and God has a weird sense of humor.

I’ve always felt that marrying a doctor or a lawyer would be too cliche.

I was just thinking – online dating is kind of like a never ending dessert buffet. You might hit patches that you aren’t in the mood for, like say rhubarb ice cream, but in a day or so, some really great chocolate cake could pop up. The trick in any type of dating, I think, […]

What defines a player? I What defines a player? I’ve been trying to figure this out because sometimes I worry that maybe I am one. Although, I’m guessing if that was the case, I wouldn’t be worried about it? To me a player is someone who toys with other people’s hearts. Who sleeps with multiple […]

I sometimes say one of the reasons for a boyfriend is so you have a guy to hang with during national holidays.  In some ways – this is true!  I LOVE my girlfriends, but we don’t exactly cuddle into the night and I love the whole 3 days instead of 2 days to wake up […]