My Devina

My Devina

Being A Goddess

Sex & The City Girls

Sex & The City Girls

This weekend I went with some of my girlfriend to see Sex & The City 2.   I think one of the reasons the series and now the movies are such a hit, is that so many of us can relate to the women. Some of us to one character, but probably most of us to […]

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Proof Life Can Get Worse

Proof Life Can Get Worse

So I’m newly single, big heart crushing breakup.  And 24  hours into it, people are already trying to set me up with people.  Hello – could I have a little breathing room to healthily morn the loss?  But it gets better – the title of an email from a loving, caring, concerns girlfriend:  Subject: Jackrabbit […]

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Musings of a Single Gal

Musings of a Single Gal

Recently I was on the phone with a girlfriend who was lamenting being single. This got me thinking. I don’t begrudge my current single status. Do I want to be happily married with children? Yes, I do. But am I sitting awake at night worrying about this? Not at all.

As Patty on The Millionaire Matchmaker recently said – “You are 1 date away from a boyfriend.”

Since my last long term relationship I have been: to Greece (on my own); to Hawaii (with my Mom); to Vegas (with the girls); and had numerous overnight/ weekend trips to San Diego and Palm Springs (on my own). I’ve had 4 marriage proposals: one insulting, two sweet, and one Oh My God I Had No idea. I’ve had my heart re-broken by my ex. Broken again by my most recent lover. Been asked by countless men to be their girlfriend. And oh yes, had at least 50 first dates – some hilarious, some excruciatingly painful, and some nice, warm and fuzzy.

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The Magnet Is On High:

The Magnet Is On High:

My girlfriend and I have a saying – “The Magnet Is On!”  And some weeks, it is on high.  Of course other weeks it seems to be cloaked (if I want to take credit for my dry run) or it’s just FLIPPING OFF! Having a magnet, and just getting use to its full and awesome […]

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Being Sexy AND an Athlete – Is That A Bad Thing?

Being Sexy AND an Athlete – Is That A Bad Thing?

There is something interesting about American culture (I can’t really speak for other cultures, maybe it’s in other places too). Women have such a strong pressure in society to be a woman, to be appealing to men, but not tooooo much! To be sexy, but not toooo sexy. Slightly neurotic – yes?

The pole fitness community is a great example of this. The women wear 6 inch stiletto heels. Wear almost no clothes while performing (because to do so makes tricks on the pole much easier/ less slippery and it’s a lot of work – so you get kind of hot), hair done, makeup full out. Eyelashes often stripper length and style. Posing quite suggestively in print, in e-zines and in Facebook photos. And yet, a good number of people in this community complain that people think they are sexy. That pole dancing isn’t sexual, it’s sensual.

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Message From The Universe

Message From The Universe

Every morning I have green tea.  The brand that I buy has a little message on each tea bag tag.  And so one morning I open up my tea bag and it says Truth is Everlasting.  And then the next morning, I open up my tea bag, and I get the same saying.  I open […]

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Embrace The Girlie Girl

Embrace The Girlie Girl

Just saw a Facebook post about someone trying to get their little girl to play “boy” games instead of doing her hair, painting her nails and playing with her Barbie. I don’t know why but this really bothers me. What’s wrong with being a girl? If a girl WANTS to play with trucks, she will. […]

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Grab Yourself A Man!

Grab Yourself A Man!

I noticed that two girls had grabbed a guy has he came out of the bathroom and started to dance with him. At first he was very opposed to the idea. But then…

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To Be or Not To Be: Charlotte

To Be or Not To Be: Charlotte

We have all had this conversation either externally or internally about which Sex And The City Character we are.  Most of us want to be Carrie.  At one time, when I was totally corporate, I was totally Miranda.  At other times, say in my 20’s, I was totally Charlotte.  And recently, given my sex “expert” […]

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Always Have An Exit Strategy

Always Have An Exit Strategy

A girlfriend and I decided to actively pursue spots where the type of eligible men we want to meet were likely to be…. But we discovered we needed a code..

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