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My Devina

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Sex & The City Girls

Sex & The City Girls

This weekend I went with some of my girlfriend to see Sex & The City 2.   I think one of the reasons the series and now the movies are such a hit, is that so many of us can relate to the women. Some of us to one character, but probably most of us to […]

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Proof Life Can Get Worse

Proof Life Can Get Worse

So I’m newly single, big heart crushing breakup.  And 24  hours into it, people are already trying to set me up with people.  Hello – could I have a little breathing room to healthily morn the loss?  But it gets better – the title of an email from a loving, caring, concerns girlfriend:  Subject: Jackrabbit […]

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Musings of a Single Gal

Musings of a Single Gal

Recently I was on the phone with a girlfriend who was lamenting being single. This got me thinking. I don’t begrudge my current single status. Do I want to be happily married with children? Yes, I do. But am I sitting awake at night worrying about this? Not at all.

As Patty on The Millionaire Matchmaker recently said – “You are 1 date away from a boyfriend.”

Since my last long term relationship I have been: to Greece (on my own); to Hawaii (with my Mom); to Vegas (with the girls); and had numerous overnight/ weekend trips to San Diego and Palm Springs (on my own). I’ve had 4 marriage proposals: one insulting, two sweet, and one Oh My God I Had No idea. I’ve had my heart re-broken by my ex. Broken again by my most recent lover. Been asked by countless men to be their girlfriend. And oh yes, had at least 50 first dates – some hilarious, some excruciatingly painful, and some nice, warm and fuzzy.

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The Magnet Is On High:

The Magnet Is On High:

My girlfriend and I have a saying – “The Magnet Is On!”  And some weeks, it is on high.  Of course other weeks it seems to be cloaked (if I want to take credit for my dry run) or it’s just FLIPPING OFF! Having a magnet, and just getting use to its full and awesome […]

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Grab Yourself A Man!

Grab Yourself A Man!

I noticed that two girls had grabbed a guy has he came out of the bathroom and started to dance with him. At first he was very opposed to the idea. But then…

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Always Have An Exit Strategy

Always Have An Exit Strategy

A girlfriend and I decided to actively pursue spots where the type of eligible men we want to meet were likely to be…. But we discovered we needed a code..

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Dating After 30:

Dating After 30:

There is a really strange phenomena that occurs when you hit 30. All of a sudden your girlfriends who are over 30 start to act in completely bizarre ways. They also expect you to think totally differently than when you were under 30.

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Watching a Friend Stick With An Abusive Relationship

Watching a Friend Stick With An Abusive Relationship

I decided to catch up on some of my Guilty Pleasure TV, so I had on Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.  Watching Taylor go at Camille was heartbreaking. I felt for both Camille and Taylor.  Because I’ve been in both of their shoes.

I’ve been the one in a relationship afraid for my life. And I’ve been the friend, trying to support my girlfriend when in an abusive relationship, baffled that even after admitting it is abusive, she stays.  Both sides are heartbreaking.

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