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Being A Goddess

The Pitfalls of Being a Sex Themed Blogger:

The Pitfalls of Being a Sex Themed Blogger:

All this research is getting me in trouble. Yesterday I was researching ways to increase desire..and now my man thinks he’s getting sex every day for a year..

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Watching a Friend Stick With An Abusive Relationship

Watching a Friend Stick With An Abusive Relationship

I decided to catch up on some of my Guilty Pleasure TV, so I had on Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.  Watching Taylor go at Camille was heartbreaking. I felt for both Camille and Taylor.  Because I’ve been in both of their shoes.

I’ve been the one in a relationship afraid for my life. And I’ve been the friend, trying to support my girlfriend when in an abusive relationship, baffled that even after admitting it is abusive, she stays.  Both sides are heartbreaking.

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Marilyn and Her Curves

Marilyn and Her Curves

Every notice that Marilyn Monroe had curves?  And her curves got more pronounced as she got older? Which actually increased her sex appeal. To this day, no man looks at pictures of her and thinks” big girl” or “wow look at that less than flat stomach.”  No, they think “Hot, Hot, Hot.”

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Throwing Cards:

Throwing Cards:

I have been using tarot cards for 6 or 7 years now. I bought my 1st set of tarot cards after getting frustrated that I paid money to be told what I already knew.

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Since When Did 37 Become The End of The World?

Since When Did 37 Become The End of The World?

Went to a new OBGYN who decided to inform me (multiple times) that my window for easy child conception was closing. I am and have been well aware that my biological clock keeps ticking away. But I don’t need a man who doesn’t know me, to make sweeping judgements about my life, based on my childless status.

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Why Do We Love Jennifer Aniston So Much? I Think It’s Because We Can Relate!

Why Do We Love Jennifer Aniston So Much? I Think It’s Because We Can Relate!

The other week Jennifer Aniston had another movie come out. And by some box office standards, it didn

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Dating After 30:

Dating After 30:

There is a really strange phenomena that occurs when you hit 30. All of a sudden your girlfriends who are over 30 start to act in completely bizarre ways. They also expect you to think totally differently than when you were under 30.

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A Creation Myth: The Story of Yhi, The Goddess in Aboriginal Mythology

A Creation Myth: The Story of Yhi, The Goddess in Aboriginal Mythology

Many creation myths & stories have been told over time. The most common is the story of Adam & Eve. This story bothers me because it blames Eve for everything… I would like to offer another story – one that holds no pain, and no blame of women. Once best told by Fiona Horne:

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Always Have An Exit Strategy

Always Have An Exit Strategy

A girlfriend and I decided to actively pursue spots where the type of eligible men we want to meet were likely to be…. But we discovered we needed a code..

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To Be or Not To Be: Charlotte

To Be or Not To Be: Charlotte

We have all had this conversation either externally or internally about which Sex And The City Character we are.  Most of us want to be Carrie.  At one time, when I was totally corporate, I was totally Miranda.  At other times, say in my 20’s, I was totally Charlotte.  And recently, given my sex “expert” […]

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