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The Multiple Orgasm – Isn’t Up There With Santa, It Really Does Exist

The Multiple Orgasm – Isn’t Up There With Santa, It Really Does Exist

I remember being in my room in college and reading in Cosmo about the multiple orgasm and thinking – wow this really exists! Not only an orgasm – but multiple! Before then I thought multiple orgasm was just a myth. But for some reason, reading it in black and white, made it more real. And so my quest to not just be orgasmic, but multiple orgasmic began.

The irony being at the time I had never even had a single orgasm. I enjoyed being close with my boyfriend. I loved being naked and I loved that connection. But I never came – and often times sex was actually painful for me. And would get more painful, the more I tried to “make” things happen.

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My Quest For The Multiple Orgasm

My Quest For The Multiple Orgasm

I was not one of those lucky women who always knew what an orgasm was. In my twenties orgasms were RARE and were WORK. In my late teens/ early twenties orgasms were actually non-existent. I LOVED sex, except when it would feel like work, like something was wrong with me, because I couldn’t reach that point everyone else seemed to be talking about. And sometimes, that felt like all the time!

Flash forward to my mid thirties – totally different. I still LOVE sex, but now I have orgasms so many times that some people don’t believe me about how many. I have had to make a partner stop at times so I can catch my breath. And when I first started having multiple multiple orgasms, I didn’t know how to prepare my body and I literally ended up with physical exhaustion from such an amazing experience. Orgasms, for the most part, are no longer work – quite the opposite they are fun and effortless.

How did I get here? It didn’t happen overnight – but I think I figured out the path because I don’t think I should be the only one to have these amazing experiences.

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The Elusive Orgasm: Oh Where Oh Where Did My Orgasm Go?

The Elusive Orgasm: Oh Where Oh Where Did My Orgasm Go?

Ever have sex and not have an orgasm? I have a confession to make. Even as orgasmic as I am, I sometimes have sex and have very few or no orgasms. Why? Who knows! The real question is how we deal with that.

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7 Things For Women To Consider When Buying An Adult Toy, Vibrator Or Dildo

7 Things For Women To Consider When Buying An Adult Toy, Vibrator Or Dildo

There are lots of questions posted in various locations asking the question a lot of women have, but won’t admit to.  “I’d like to buy a toy – but I don’t know how.” What do I like? What do I want? What if I hate it?  I don’t like spending money on something I will […]

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Height of Male Arrogance, Telling Women They Can Only Have Clitoral Orgasms

Height of Male Arrogance, Telling Women They Can Only Have Clitoral Orgasms

Recently a “study” in the Journal of Sexual Medicine came out saying that women only experience one kind of orgasm – a clitoral orgasms. I’m sure this “scientist’s” head would explode if I explained that women can have all sorts of orgasms, that include vaginal, g-spot and pretty much anywhere on our bodies…

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