Lubrication is something most people don’t talk about. I’m not sure if it’s because it’s a great unknown, or if, kind of like vibrators, some people think using them equals a bad sex life. Well…. here’s another way to look at it: just because a woman uses lubricant does NOT mean her partner isn’t doing […]

All this research is getting me in trouble. Yesterday I was researching ways to increase desire..and now my man thinks he’s getting sex every day for a year..

Seeing as how it’s Thanksgiving, & that wishbone is lying around the kitchen somewhere, I thought I’d share what my wish for everyone is. No, it’s not World Peace

I hate to admit it – being a bit of a sex blogger, but I have hit a wall….I somehow went from complaining about NOT getting sex, to having sex once or twice a day.

I was thinking – I really don’t know if I will ever fully understand the intricacies of the male member.  For starters, they are all truly different, and beautiful in their own ways.  Each one incredibly unique in size, length, girth etc. And then you have the whole – what makes it harder or softer, longer or shorter in the same play date. I swear sometimes trying to figure this one out can drive a girl crazy.

I just want to spend a minute giving props to sexting. It seems to get a bad rap – so I wanted to give it a different spin.

You know that song by Al Green? “Tired of Being Alone”?  I am so feeling that right now.  Today I ran into two men I have dated previously. Both stuck in Peter Pan mode for very different reasons.  Both nice guys, in some respects, with whom I have chemistry. But because they aren’t looking for […]

OK, we’ve all been there. We are making out with a guy, and things are heating up (or maybe not on our end) and the guy wants more. Since men, in my opinion, are eternal optimists, and because most of their mental capacity is focused elsewhere, some of the reasons given for why we should […]

So I bought a new toy. A completely new type of toy – which meant I had nothing to compare it to when shopping for it (like bigger or smaller than my last toy). The challenge when buying a new toy is that it is an unknown. You can’t test drive a toy. The best […]

I was having a conversation with a girlfriend in which she referred to the male sex organ as “that dangly thing.” I actually understood where she was coming from, having had similar thoughts in my 20’s. Because of sexual trauma in my past, I not surprisingly had some issues with men, and sex.