My Devina

My Devina

Will We Ever Figure It (The Male Member) Out?

Will We Ever Figure It (The Male Member) Out?

I was thinking – I really don’t know if I will ever fully understand the intricacies of the male member.  For starters, they are all truly different, and beautiful in their own ways.  Each one incredibly unique in size, length, girth etc. And then you have the whole – what makes it harder or softer, longer or shorter in the same play date. I swear sometimes trying to figure this one out can drive a girl crazy.

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Sexting

Sexting

I just want to spend a minute giving props to sexting. It seems to get a bad rap – so I wanted to give it a different spin.

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Tired of Being Alone

Tired of Being Alone

You know that song by Al Green? “Tired of Being Alone”?  I am so feeling that right now.  Today I ran into two men I have dated previously. Both stuck in Peter Pan mode for very different reasons.  Both nice guys, in some respects, with whom I have chemistry. But because they aren’t looking for […]

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Funniest Lines Men Have Used To Get Me To Have Sex (which never work btw)

Funniest Lines Men Have Used To Get Me To Have Sex (which never work btw)

OK, we’ve all been there. We are making out with a guy, and things are heating up (or maybe not on our end) and the guy wants more. Since men, in my opinion, are eternal optimists, and because most of their mental capacity is focused elsewhere, some of the reasons given for why we should […]

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A New Toy

A New Toy

So I bought a new toy. A completely new type of toy – which meant I had nothing to compare it to when shopping for it (like bigger or smaller than my last toy). The challenge when buying a new toy is that it is an unknown. You can’t test drive a toy. The best […]

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Learning to Love The Penis

Learning to Love The Penis

I was having a conversation with a girlfriend in which she referred to the male sex organ as “that dangly thing.” I actually understood where she was coming from, having had similar thoughts in my 20’s. Because of sexual trauma in my past, I not surprisingly had some issues with men, and sex.

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The Give and Take of Sex

The Give and Take of Sex

Getting naked with someone new, is always an interesting thing.  Not just because it’s new, but because different people have different dynamics.  For example, some guys like to participate jointly and some like to trade off.  And I’m not talking 69 – I just mean, some guys want to make it all about me, and […]

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My Quest For The Multiple Orgasm

My Quest For The Multiple Orgasm

I was not one of those lucky women who always knew what an orgasm was. In my twenties orgasms were RARE and were WORK. In my late teens/ early twenties orgasms were actually non-existent. I LOVED sex, except when it would feel like work, like something was wrong with me, because I couldn’t reach that point everyone else seemed to be talking about. And sometimes, that felt like all the time!

Flash forward to my mid thirties – totally different. I still LOVE sex, but now I have orgasms so many times that some people don’t believe me about how many. I have had to make a partner stop at times so I can catch my breath. And when I first started having multiple multiple orgasms, I didn’t know how to prepare my body and I literally ended up with physical exhaustion from such an amazing experience. Orgasms, for the most part, are no longer work – quite the opposite they are fun and effortless.

How did I get here? It didn’t happen overnight – but I think I figured out the path because I don’t think I should be the only one to have these amazing experiences.

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The Multiple Orgasm – Isn’t Up There With Santa, It Really Does Exist

The Multiple Orgasm – Isn’t Up There With Santa, It Really Does Exist

I remember being in my room in college and reading in Cosmo about the multiple orgasm and thinking – wow this really exists! Not only an orgasm – but multiple! Before then I thought multiple orgasm was just a myth. But for some reason, reading it in black and white, made it more real. And so my quest to not just be orgasmic, but multiple orgasmic began.

The irony being at the time I had never even had a single orgasm. I enjoyed being close with my boyfriend. I loved being naked and I loved that connection. But I never came – and often times sex was actually painful for me. And would get more painful, the more I tried to “make” things happen.

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Off & Over There

Off & Over There

Swim: MichelleGArt.com What is the point of taking 10 minutes to pick out the cutest underwear and panties – making sure they match appropriately, even if they weren’t officially a set. If the guy isn’t even going to look at them as he pulls them off of you? On a side note, I once made […]

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