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The Condescending Date: A Bad Date Story

The Condescending Date: A Bad Date Story

From the dating archives… Not sure what I learned from this one. Maybe it was – trust your gut and just say no next time to a guy you are on the fence about asks you out??? I have this theory – it is that no date is a waste of time. But this one […]

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Dating: Special Occasion Sex?

Dating: Special Occasion Sex?

There is a myth out there. I wonder if anyone else has come across it?  The one that says women don’t want sex and men are crazy sex machines.  This might – might – have applied to part of the population in our late teens. (Although studies show teen girls and boys dream equally about […]

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Being Single: Enough About Me, Let’s Talk About Me

Being Single: Enough About Me, Let’s Talk About Me

From the Dating Archives… There are days when I LOVE being single.  Mainly this can include flirting with one or more cute, viable men. Getting a call from a guy I have a crush on who is asking me out for the first time. Having an amazing guy call me up and tell me amazing […]

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Dating Advice: Reasons to Not Date That Sound Slightly More Plausible Than “I Have To Wash My Hair”

Dating Advice: Reasons to Not Date That Sound Slightly More Plausible Than “I Have To Wash My Hair”

Often when dating, especially when dating online, there is a need to let someone down easily. In a way that will hopefully not sting too…

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Dating Over 30: Part of Your World, Part of Mine, or Both?

Dating Over 30: Part of Your World, Part of Mine, or Both?

You know that song from The Little Mermaid – where she sings about wanting to be part of her Prince’s world? For so long that …

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Dating: To “Wait For Him” or Not

Dating: To “Wait For Him” or Not

There’s a common occurrence in the dating world. Girl meets boy, girl & boy fall in love, boy decides he needs his “space.” So boy dates other girls, & girl waits…

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Single And Over 30: Nothing. Nothing Is Wrong With Me Because I Am Still Single

Single And Over 30: Nothing. Nothing Is Wrong With Me Because I Am Still Single

Do you ever get tired of people asking what’s wrong with you?

Why are you still single?

Why is “I just haven’t found the right person” not a good enough response?

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Dating: Heads or Tails

Dating: Heads or Tails

From the Dating Archives…

My girlfriend and I were out and about. EJ, a cute, tall, blonde guy came up to the two of us. He …

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Dating: Looking For A Few Good Men

Dating: Looking For A Few Good Men

One of my girlfriends decided she wanted to date a good looking black man. She decided this would be a good idea because they tend to be taller (she’s 5’10) and they like a girl with a little bit of back side or “Junk In The Trunk”. (Know your market). Now the problem is, where in South Orange County are you going to find lots of options?

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Dating After 30: The Misdirected Pursuit of Happiness

Dating After 30: The Misdirected Pursuit of Happiness

I was talking to a guy friend about some of what I had observed while dating. We were talking about men in their 40’s / 50’s who are successful, yet out partying, playing volleyball or other sports daily, traveling the world constantly and dating 20 year old girls who don’t care and won’t question.  My […]

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