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Dating Over 30: Part of Your World, Part of Mine, or Both?

Dating Over 30: Part of Your World, Part of Mine, or Both?

You know that song from The Little Mermaid – where she sings about wanting to be part of her Prince’s world? For so long that …

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Being Single, Manifesting And Letting Go

Being Single, Manifesting And Letting Go

Whenever I am focused on manifesting something new and positive in my life, I always remember what the “Experts” say. They always say – you …

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The Mirror – Dating & Self Reflection

The Mirror – Dating & Self Reflection

Whenever I start a new relationship I see how that person sees me. This time I realized an abusive relationship in my past wasn’t quite behind me.

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Dating: Looking For A Few Good Men

Dating: Looking For A Few Good Men

One of my girlfriends decided she wanted to date a good looking black man. She decided this would be a good idea because they tend to be taller (she’s 5’10) and they like a girl with a little bit of back side or “Junk In The Trunk”. (Know your market). Now the problem is, where in South Orange County are you going to find lots of options?

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Throwing Cards:

Throwing Cards:

I have been using tarot cards for 6 or 7 years now. I bought my 1st set of tarot cards after getting frustrated that I paid money to be told what I already knew.

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Why Do We Love Jennifer Aniston So Much? I Think It’s Because We Can Relate!

Why Do We Love Jennifer Aniston So Much? I Think It’s Because We Can Relate!

The other week Jennifer Aniston had another movie come out. And by some box office standards, it didn

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Tired of Being Alone

Tired of Being Alone

You know that song by Al Green? “Tired of Being Alone”?  I am so feeling that right now.  Today I ran into two men I have dated previously. Both stuck in Peter Pan mode for very different reasons.  Both nice guys, in some respects, with whom I have chemistry. But because they aren’t looking for […]

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Do We Wait Too Long?

Do We Wait Too Long?

  Watching Hallmark’s The Lost Valentine  – in it Betty White plays a woman who as a young bride re-met her high school sweetheart during WWII and within 2 weeks was married. This reminded me of my grandparents love story. They met during WWII.  And were engaged 3 weeks later, married 3 weeks after that.  […]

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Diving Into The Deep End

Diving Into The Deep End

You know when you start dating a new person, and you start to think – maybe this will work.  Maybe this will click.  Maybe this is it?  That is suppose to be a good thing!  But so often I at least then start thinking “Crap! Now I have to get naked with a new person.” […]

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Why Do Some People Assume Being Single Is Wrong?

Why Do Some People Assume Being Single Is Wrong?

Do you ever get that look, when someone hears you are “still” single?  That question – as to why no one has married you yet.  Or why you don’t have a significant other yet? As if we haven’t been asked, or something?  As if where we are, right now, as a single person isn’t where […]

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