My Devina

My Devina

Finding Love

Stagnating Energy

Stagnating Energy

OMG last night I was reading an article on Feng Shui and realized that in my Love & Relationship corner I had a very large stagnant plant. That sucker had not grown at all in two years. (I repotted it two years ago, into a nice roomy pot, and it just never recovered.) Feng Shui […]

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Bone Crushing Loneliness

Bone Crushing Loneliness

I sometimes say one of the reasons for a boyfriend is so you have a guy to hang with during national holidays.  In some ways – this is true!  I LOVE my girlfriends, but we don’t exactly cuddle into the night and I love the whole 3 days instead of 2 days to wake up […]

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Vegas Baby

Vegas Baby

So I’m on the phone with my photographer, scheduling a time to pickup my latest work. I tell him Friday won’t do, as I’m going to Vegas. He says “You aren’t getting married are you?” I say “No – at least I don’t think so.” I couldn’t help that last part – and here’s why.

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Conversation with Mom

Conversation with Mom

I don’t know how many women are lucky enough to have a relationship with their Mom where they discuss sex and lack of it, but I do. At dinner one night I was complaining to my Mom that my dating life was great. …

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Vegas Baby Vegas

Vegas Baby Vegas

Well, I’m back from Vegas, and while I didn’t get married while there, something really interesting did happen. I did not have the weekend I had planned. In fact, we ended up coming back before the evening we had been looking forward to could occur. But instead I ended up hanging out with an ex-boyfriend and his friends on the night that was suppose to be low key and relaxing. And I stumbled back to my hotel around 5am the next morning.

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The Bar: An Observation

The Bar: An Observation

Note to Self: Most women go to the bar to dance and hang out with girlfriends. Guys go to the bar to get laid…

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Ugh – Loneliness

Ugh – Loneliness

You know that bone crushing, overwhelming at times, lonely feeling you get when you live alone, it’s the holidays, your family isn’t nearby and you don’t have a significant other?  Well, here’s hoping you don’t.  But if you do, you aren’t alone. I do realize it is possible to feel utterly alone even when in […]

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Why Do Some People Assume Being Single Is Wrong?

Why Do Some People Assume Being Single Is Wrong?

Do you ever get that look, when someone hears you are “still” single?  That question – as to why no one has married you yet.  Or why you don’t have a significant other yet? As if we haven’t been asked, or something?  As if where we are, right now, as a single person isn’t where […]

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Diving Into The Deep End

Diving Into The Deep End

You know when you start dating a new person, and you start to think – maybe this will work.  Maybe this will click.  Maybe this is it?  That is suppose to be a good thing!  But so often I at least then start thinking “Crap! Now I have to get naked with a new person.” […]

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Do We Wait Too Long?

Do We Wait Too Long?

  Watching Hallmark’s The Lost Valentine  – in it Betty White plays a woman who as a young bride re-met her high school sweetheart during WWII and within 2 weeks was married. This reminded me of my grandparents love story. They met during WWII.  And were engaged 3 weeks later, married 3 weeks after that.  […]

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