My Devina

Dr. Wayne Dyer once said “You cannot be lonely if you like the person you’re alone with” Hmm. Well, while in theory, this is a great quote.; in reality, I’m guessing the man has never lived alone for a few years, without family nearby.

Below is a review of three popular massage candles. After using all three, I strongly prefer the JimmyJane Afterglow and the reviews below explain why.

There is a myth out there. I wonder if anyone else has come across it?  The one that says women don’t want sex and men are crazy sex machines.  This might – might – have applied to part of the population in our late teens. (Although studies show teen girls and boys dream equally about […]

When I was looking to upgrade our 50 Shades of Grey experience to something other than the sashes off the bathroom robes, I decided to splurge on the Lelo Boa Pleasure Ties.

From the Dating Archives… There are days when I LOVE being single.  Mainly this can include flirting with one or more cute, viable men. Getting a call from a guy I have a crush on who is asking me out for the first time. Having an amazing guy call me up and tell me amazing […]

There are lots of questions posted in various locations asking the question a lot of women have, but won’t admit to.  “I’d like to buy a toy – but I don’t know how.” What do I like? What do I want? What if I hate it?  I don’t like spending money on something I will […]

From the Dating Archives…. For years, people have always been giving me advice whenever I felt stuck or irritated about something happening in my relationship.  “Just tell him the truth” they’d say. “Haha  yeah right” – was always what I thought. Somewhere along the line I had decided it was OK for a guy to […]

In previous posts, I have referenced that I experienced multiple experiences of sexual trauma in my past. The details are not important – I am …

Often when dating, especially when dating online, there is a need to let someone down easily. In a way that will hopefully not sting too…

I love System Jo products, so I really looking forward to trying their new line of Dona products, with the Dona Massage Candle (Link to EdenFantasies).