A New Toy
Sexuality
So I bought a new toy. A completely new type of toy – which meant I had nothing to compare it to when shopping for it (like bigger or smaller than my last toy). The challenge when buying a new toy is that it is an unknown. You can’t test drive a toy. The best you can do is feel it in your hand. And let’s face it our hands aren’t really anything like our girlie parts.
And, if we get a great sales person, we ask them what they think. And they will tell us what they like, what works for them. Which may or may not work – since every woman is different and we all have our individual pleasure points.
Or maybe we ask a friend what they think (if they are with us) or what they like in hopes maybe we will too. And all in all we then just guess. We hope that it will work and sometimes we are right, and sometimes we are wrong.
And then, I don’t know about you – but I am also a little intrepid when I first play with a new toy. It’s almost like being with a new partner. It feels foreign.
Sometimes this is made easier by asking my partner to help me play with it. But most of the time the reason I have a new toy is because – hello – I don’t have a partner! So then it’s just me – taking it slow, getting to know the toy and seeing what I think.
Wishing there was an easier way to guarantee success with this process. Anyone know of any?
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Myself, well I just think it’s an added bonus and helps me in the long run. If a toy is involved then I can concentrate on the girl more and let the toy assist me in finishing the job at hand. 😛