My Wish for Everyone:
Sexuality
Seeing as how it’s Thanksgiving, and that wishbone is lying around the kitchen somewhere, I thought I’d share what my wish for everyone is. No, it’s not World Peace. But if done right, maybe it would lead to that. : )
It’s based on a conversation I had with a guy friend. I said that most women, if a guy looses his erection, will blame themselves. Of course, this is ridiculous – especially since most of that time the root cause is the guy’s just tired, or is nervous, or he’s been drinking, so it has absolutely nothing to do with the woman and is not something the guy can control. But we as women tend to blame ourselves anyway. My guy friend of course thought women assuming the blame was crazy.
So then he says to me – “Well most men always assume they aren’t big enough.” I thought this was funny. Because in my experience, the only men I could see as thinking they aren’t big enough, for some blessedly unknown reason, actually think they are well endowed. Or it doesn’t even occur to them to have a complex about it.
So my wish for everyone is this: That we all decide that we are good enough in the bedroom to please our partner. And that when things go “wrong” we decide it’s not “wrong” it’s just a moment in time, where maybe we take a moment to enjoy each other’s company is a slightly different manner, and begin again when conditions are more favorable.
For another introspective post try Why Honoring The Feminine Is So Important
